First Impression: The Henna Wars by Adiba Jaigirdar
I’ve only just started The Henna Wars and I’m already loving it! Adiba Jaigirdar writes so well, and she really gets exactly what it feels like to be a teenager figuring things out. One line that hit me straight away was: “It’s weird, but after I’ve made my decision I feel like I’m on borrowed time. Like this is my family’s last day together and something is about to break open between us.” It sums up that heavy feeling of trying to accept your sexuality while growing up in a Bengali family — you can really feel the worry and pressure she’s under.
It’s honestly so interesting reading from the perspective of someone from a different culture. I love learning about the different names and words used for family members, and just understanding how everything works within her culture. It makes the story feel so real and immersive, especially seeing how things like views on sexuality can be so different from what I know. There’s another quote that stuck with me too: “I’ve never felt so horrid for not being criticized before. It feels like a slap in the face like the ultimate criticism is this sudden lack of criticism.” It perfectly shows how much she just wants to be accepted for being herself, and how painful it is when people don’t even react — like silence hurts more than anything.
It’s not all deep and serious though, there are some hilarious bits too! I actually laughed out loud when I read: “At least my momentary breathing amnesia isn’t obvious.” Who hasn’t had that awkward moment where you just freeze up? 😂 And I absolutely loved the reference: “This suddenly feels like a Defense Against the Dark Arts class in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban. All that’s left is for Ms. Montgomery to whip out a boggart.” Such a great nod to another favourite book — that made me smile so much!
So far it’s such a great read. It’s all about finding yourself, navigating your culture, and just trying to be you. I’m totally hooked and can’t wait to read more!
If you’ve ever read this, please let me know your thoughts and opinions in the comments!
With Love & Pages,
Jade 💛
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